I wish I could say it has ended. It hasn’t … He now stalks me. I did not speak to him for two years. No contact at all. He was watching all my social profiles, however. Anything, I posted on facebook, google plus etc… he had his phone set to alert him. I had blocked him off everything, he simply set up a different persona.
I had changed after he finally left. I was not the same person ever again that I used to be. The only way I managed to get him out of my life was to become like him as we were breaking up. I started recording him without his knowledge. I had read on a website that the only thing a sociopath really fears is exposure. For that information, I was grateful.
Thus, the prey became the predator and I went after him with a vengeance. I had done everything I could legally to protect myself but it is harder than you think to put somebody in jail for stealing your checks, credit cards, hitting you ……. So I decided to hit the sociopath where it hurt the most – exposure and humiliation!
PLEASE BE AWARE THIS VIDEO CONTAINS FOUL LANGUAGE AND OFFENSIVE NAME CALLING!
I started scaring him with threats. Telling on him for every single thing he did. In fact, making it all public on the internet. I have about ten police reports I had filed on him. And I made him look like a complete goofball. Maybe, I had become as bad as he was but it felt kind of good finally being the one in control. Free of any vulnerability towards his abuse. But he was GONE!! And although I suffered trauma from the aftermath. I was so grateful. Never again, would I let somebody cause me that much pain and blindside me?
Two years later, he befriended me on Facebook and said he was so sorry for everything he had done to me and hoped I was well. He asked about the cats. I was tired of carrying around the anger and made a HUGE MISTAKE. I replied! I had become Christian and was learning about the principles of forgiveness and trying to return to the person I had been before I met him. One not burdened down with hatred and resentment.
A SOCIOPATH CAN NEVER CHANGE! I KNEW AND THAT AND IGNORED IT!
He said he was a different person, had a job and he really did sound different. I had no desire to ever get into a relationship with him. I had moved and thought I was pretty much bulletproof against him. We hung out a couple of times, he tried to get fresh with me and was promptly rejected. The rejection it turned out made him furious. He stole one of my credit cards again and I told him to get out!
IF I EVER SEE YOUR FACE I WILL PUT YOU IN JAIL FOREVER!
He fled with his tail between his legs. He tried to cowardly get back at me by posting ads on the internet that I was a church hooker. I didn’t even care, I had better things to do with my life than worry about his stupid games.
Then it got more serious. He stole my $700 bicycle a month ago. Started applying for homeowners insurance for the condo that I rent in his name and posted all over my Facebook, very personal videos of myself from a couple of years back and sent it to members of my congregation.
I had blocked him from all my accounts, but he made up a fake account as a girl and I thought she was a church member and it slipped past me. He knew my newfound church was the one thing that really made me happy and sent out intimate videos to EVERY CHURCH MEMBER who had. Not one of them paid attention, so he keeps losing!
The insurance thing made me nervous, I am hoping he is not planning on burning my house down. I want to get a restraining order but he is doing all in a manner that is very difficult to prove. I know how he works and without a doubt it is him!
I refuse to let his jealousy ruin my life for one second longer and I do believe that all the people that he has wronged, karma is not going to be so good to him!
Don’t ask me why but I find this picture to be particularly creepy. Accidentally taken on my webcam.
TAKE ME THROUGH THE DARKNESS TO THE BREAK OF THE DAY!
You may find humor in this blog and think it’s not real or acted out, but 100% it is not a joke and despite the serious hell I went through it still hard not to laugh at him. Not with him, but at him!